Kondescending Kunt Unsolicited Online Dating Advice #2 "How To Send Her A Picture Without Outing Yourself"

Women complain that they cannot accurately decide if someone is fuckable without an accurate face picture.

Men don't send them, because most are in situations that require some discretion.

Possible solutions...

Use a face picture of yourself that is available for public consumption on your professional sites or personal social media. If you choose to use your professional one, figure out how to incorporate professional lingo, know how, that proves you didn't just cat fish someone else's professional site. If the exchange is really something to embarrass you or blackmail you or whatever, as long as you send it through an anonymous email system, then you can just say you are a victim of a cat fisher and had nothing to do with the interaction.

And, don't send a real picture of your dick to people who might not be women strangers. Women who know you intimately can recognize them and catch you in something you cannot get out of. And, since your private part pictures are probably not readily available for the public to view and send as their own, you can't easily say you had nothing to do with sending it to someone.

If you are very private, so only your friends and family can access your social media pictures, send a group photo with you in it. Because it is of more than one person, it is possible that someone else pictured shared the photo. Don't disclose which one you are until you've created enough interaction to believe she is not going to expose you. Or, ask her to rate who is fuckable in the picture. If she picks you, great. Also, if you choose to describe your physical appearance in the text, make sure at least one other person pictured matches that description.

If you are married, send a picture of you with only other married people pictured. So, again anyone pictured may have sent the picture.

This group photo idea works in cases when you are approaching someone local to your home or community. Just in case, you accidentally come across someone you already know.

So, if the reluctance is really discretion and not some attempt to temporarily hide some sort of physical attractiveness, it should solve the dilemma.